Christie Hartman – Changing your Game: A man’s guide to success with woman (Book Review)

If you are, like me, for a long time in the dating scene looking for the right one, you might have experienced it all: From a few success stories to plenty of rejection and disappointment. And if you are, like me, not the whiner and complainer, or worst I-know-it-all-kind of-guy but rather the problem solver you might have looked for advice and found plenty of useless online dating advice from self-declared “Dating Guru’s” or worst even some woman who tried to tell you that you have to use seduction and be the bad guy to get you somewhere.

Also there is plenty of advice out there for woman but only a few advice books for man.

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After reading Dr. Christie Hartman’s book “Changing your Game” I can assure any man to stop looking for false advice – THIS BOOK IS ALL YOU NEED.

What makes this book better than others even perfect

One thing I like about this book is that it is fascinating written. Even if you have a long work day and cannot read it all at once – the chapters are written in a form that you find yourself eager to see how it continues.

And on top of it, this is the kind of book that you DON’T want to put in a corner once you read it – ON A CONTRARY – whenever you find yourself in a difficult situation and look for advice all you need is this book to see what solutions are the best suitable for the situation.

This book also covers a broad spectrum of what a man wants and needs to know about woman and dating (conventional and online). Let’s face it though my old grand pappy used to say man can never understand woman, or some guys think they know it all – this is nonsense; just as it is nonsense that all woman “tick” equally. Women just like man are individually only their genetic programing is similar and in order to become more successful one needs to understand the basics.

Another reason why this book is fascinating written for me – most psychologists use language that is far beyond understanding and in “Doctors language” makes you constantly feel like you are dumber than the rest – NOT THIS ONE.

Dr. Hartman uses some clear language, easy to understand, reject the overuse of psychological loanwords and uses examples out of life and sometimes out of her own experience.

She makes clear statements without the finger pointing. What she does is, in her own professional way she points out the facts without making a man feel like a moron.

This Book is perfect for every problem solver and those who want to learn how to solve their problems in dating and as a continuing reference book.

All this from a woman’s perspective without feeling the need to put man down and give you the impression that only bad guys get the girls. After reading her book now I know that even a good guy with old fashioned morals and manners can get the right woman (even hot ones) if he stops making the same mistake over and over but rather solve the problems.

And Dr. Hartman’s book is the perfect guideline for that.

Who should read this book:

Problem solvers of all kind: Now we man tend to think two dimensional and based on our profession (Lawyers like Lawyers, Engineers like Engineers) and tend to approach the problem solving in a way we work. “Changing your Game” however shows you different perspectives without making you feel like you suck. Just from the woman’s perspective based on real life examples and her own experience during her own dating time.

Complainers who are tired of complaining and finally want results, and learn how to solve the problem; and the problem is the man not the woman.

And last but not least Woman to understand the hassle man go through during dating and why they react how they react.

Like not all woman are the same not all man are the same and woman might want to know how to read a man and there is no better way to understand what man go through then getting it from THIS BOOK where Dr. Hartman gives man advice on how to deal with sometimes more and sometimes less difficult dating situations and more or less difficult woman situations.

At the same time every man should read Dr. Hartman’s book “It’s not Him, It’s YOU: the truth you may not want – but need – to Hear” to understand what woman go through when dating and get a better understanding.

What I don’t like about this book

It did not come out or brought to me 5 years ago I would be finally married by now and not have made so many mistakes.

Overall

This is a book I suggest for every guy out there who is in the dating field and sometimes gets really tired of it because of lack of success or he feels used.

This is a book every dater wants and needs to have and once he is finished Dating and caught in the blessing of a relationship and/or marriage this is a book he wants to pass on to his friends.

I DO STRONGLY SUGGEST THIS BOOK

Where do you find this book?

Find Christie Hartman, PhD on Amazon.com click here

Also see and subscribe to her website and periodic Blog posts at: www.christiehartman.com

And also find her periodically on “YourTango.com

Book Links:

Download and get your own copy of “Changing your Game” here

Once you get hooked to “Changing your game” (I did) you may also want to read

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Download and get your own copy of “Dating the Divorced Man” here

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Download and get your own copy of “It’s not him it’s you”

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Download and get your own copy of “How to find Mr. Right Online”

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Dr. Christie Hartman, PhD in a nutshell:

Christie Hartman

Christie Hartman, a graduate of the University of Colorado is a behavioral scientist, dating expert and author of four dating Book (see above). She also appeared on national television, including “The today Show” and “Fox News Live” as well as on several local TV Shows.

© and Source – www.christiehartman.com

Written by Tom C. Lehner
© 2013 – All rights reserved – free to share and publish

6 responses

  1. Great post – I like it! If I would need that book I would buy it immediately.

  2. Thanks I loved that book learned so much from it

  3. Having read this I believed it was rather informative. I appreciate you taking
    the time and energy to put this informative article together.
    I once again find myself spending way too much time both reading and posting comments.
    But so what, it was still worthwhile!

  4. can’t put my finger where i heard this before but its still interesting

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  6. Black Wolf Traitor Tredecies | Reply

    This book isn’t helping me. I doubt that. Being nice guys won’t make attraction. Let’s face it: making love by pleasing a girl won’t do any good.

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